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		<title>Jasmin Dolly &#8211; Call Her JD</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 01:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren Michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A hot mess of electronica and dubstep performed with brash stiletto attitude and raw sexual aggression. </p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/jasmin-dolly-call-her-j-d/">Jasmin Dolly &#8211; Call Her JD</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-23800" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" alt="jasmine2" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/jasmine2.jpg" width="348" height="485" />There are two undeniable trends in music today. One is the prevalence of female artists across all genres. Indeed, singles and albums charts over the last two decades have been dominated by girl power &#8211; talented, sexy and business savvy women who&#8217;ve taken control of their careers and who trumpet that fact with a special brand of feminine bravado. The second trend is the amount of performers who have embraced the new music business model &#8211; self promotion and independent production, effectively cutting out the proverbial cigar-chomping tyrannical &#8216;managers&#8217; who spar with artists for creative control of their output.</p>
<p>Jasmin Dolly is riding both those waves.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve come so far, yet I&#8217;m still no where close,&#8221; she says, speaking of her self-financed, self-managed and self-promoted career.</p>
<p>No where close? Some would beg to differ. This London born artist with Moroccan and Middle Eastern roots has some pretty impressive notches in her lipstick case including an upcoming performance in front of 10,000 people at a UK pop festival. She was also guest of honor in the 2012 UK Arab Achievement Awards and her single, <em>Call Me JD</em>,  has garnered a lot of attention since being featured in a Russian fashion video and in the critically acclaimed Greek film, <em>Luton.</em></p>
<p>The song is a hot mess of electronica and dubstep. Jasmin performs it with brash stiletto attitude and raw sexual aggression. It&#8217;s this aggressive come hither approach that instantly grabs you, but the artist isn&#8217;t just another sexy siren. She backs up her image with real talent and a genuine desire to create memorable music that pushes all the right buttons of those gyrating on dance floors.</p>
<p>Unique and scandalous, <em>Call Me JD</em> has the stuff dance classics are made of. Listen once and you&#8217;ll listen again and again until, to quote the song, you&#8217;re &#8220;fucking high.&#8221;</p>
<p>Listen/download it below, then head over to her Soundcloud page and listen to her other tracks.</p>
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		<title>Sumika Forbes is &#8216;That Girl.&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 03:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren Michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Musically, she's a girl every guy wants and every girl wants to be</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/sumika-forbes-is-that-girl/">Sumika Forbes is &#8216;That Girl.&#8217;</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/sumika.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-23776" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" alt="sumika" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/sumika-268x300.jpg" width="268" height="300" /></a>If your interest in pop music goes a few octaves higher than just passive listening, you&#8217;re probably well aware rhythmic music gets very little respect from fans of other styles of music. More than three decades after the 1979 Comiskey Park disco destruction derby where over 20,000 disco records where literally blown up by rock-n-roll fans, the word &#8220;disco&#8221; is still the negative label music snobs attach indiscriminately to anything with a dance beat. Yet this music, in all it&#8217;s incarnations, remains arguably the most influential style of music since, well, rock-in-roll. Uniquely youthful and feminine, dance music is never overly concerned with making social statements or saving the world. It&#8217;s about sex and love and fun. It seldom takes itself too seriously &#8211; unless it&#8217;s about having a seriously good time.</p>
<p>Sumika Forbes gets that and she proudly wears the dance/pop label.</p>
<p>While possibly unaware of the rich history of her genre, she nevertheless injects all of her songs with the elements that keep people listening. Infectious beats, irresistible melodies and lyrical content that people can instantly identify with drive her songs. It&#8217;s a tried and true trail that her contemporaries and inspirations &#8211; artists like <strong>Rihanna, Pink, Lady Gaga</strong> and <strong>Madonna</strong> &#8211; have blazed before her.</p>
<p>On her new eleven track offering, <em>Miracle</em>, Forbes gives us a glimpse of why she&#8217;s worthy of being in the company of the artists mentioned above. The lead-off single, <em>Miracle</em>, is a relentless dance floor jam. It&#8217;s a prayer of sorts in which she seeks guidance in a blossoming relationship and demonstrates an understanding of the feelings and emotions her listeners share.</p>
<p>Alternately, the ballad <em>My Goodbye</em> is the antithesis of Miracle. Beautifully produced and performed, Sumika is mourning a lost love. She&#8217;ll miss him &#8211; but not the pain.</p>
<p>Standout track <em>Baby You&#8217;re A Star</em> is reminiscent of Lady GaGa&#8217;s <em>Edge of Glory</em>. Sumika shows off her chops on this one. She really has a lovely voice and this one is the perfect showcase for it.</p>
<p>My favorite on the collection, though, is <em>That Girl</em>, an edgy piece about a girl every guy wants and every girl wants to be. Forbes could very well be referring to herself but she ain&#8217;t telling!</p>
<p>Based in Southern California by way of Maui, Hawaii, Sumika Forbes is an artist on top of her game. Check her out online <a href="http://www.Facebook.com/SumikaForbesMusic ">here</a> and <a href="http://www.reverbnation.com/SumikaForbes">here</a>. Then, snag a free track below and turn it up.</p>
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		<title>Calling The Shots: The joys of a female-led relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 01:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sydney Hart</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the 21st century, having a female-led relationship just might be your recipe for bliss.</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/calling-the-shots-the-joys-of-a-female-led-relationship/">Calling The Shots: The joys of a female-led relationship</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
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<p>It’s around six o’clock on a Thursday night and I’m sitting down to write this article. I look across to the kitchen to spy on my husband’s somewhat clumsy efforts at preparing us dinner. He is wearing his favorite comfy sweats and as he vigorously stirs and laboriously pours, he is tunelessly whistling to himself. It’s an endearing yet annoying habit. I may need to break him of it one of these days.</p>
<p>As I watch my man busily attending to one of his many household chores, it’s deeply satisfying to know that I have him where I want him. If I were to tell him to get naked right now, he would. If I said “stop cooking those steaks and go and make me a shepherd’s pie”, he would duly try to do just that (most likely burning our house down in the process, but still.) And of course, If I told him to go and fetch the nasty wooden spanking paddle sitting beside our bed, he would do that too, although he might pout a little.For now, I’m content to leave him alone and let him cook dinner. I have to admit though, it is nice to know he will do whatever I want.</p>
<p>My husband and I live in a female-led relationship, or FLR for short. A FLR simply refers to a relationship in which the woman has the final say. This is not such a radical concept really, let’s face it. Most people know at least one couple where the female seems to call the shots, right? The only real difference is that in a FLR this power is acknowledged and celebrated. Oh, and yes, it can be a little more extreme! So what kind of control are we talking about? Well, it can be expressed in highly sexual and kinky ways, and it can make its presence known in life outside of the bedroom; in financial, lifestyle and social decisions. It can be hard or soft, fun or intense, challenging or entirely natural. The most important thing that you can take away about FLRs is that there is not one right definition for them. The only right way is the one that works for you and your partner.</p>
<p>For my husband and me, it is simply our way of life. It’s actually quite difficult to “see” the power exchange between us unless I really think hard about it, because it is just “what we do”. I control the bank accounts, I make the decisions on our social life and our sex life focuses around him doing exactly what I like.</p>
<p>Some women might read this and think, “Argh. That sounds like a lot of work!” But it doesn’t have to be. The woman does not suddenly need to start behaving like a dominatrix or a whip wielding ice queen, if she doesn’t want to. Hell, no one can sustain that kind of energy for too long. Equally, the guy doesn’t need to assume the role of some kind of uber-obedient and mindless robot. Yes, sometimes the energy within the relationship can be intense and powerful, but at other times we just relax and enjoy one another’s company. It needn’t be oppressive or demanding. In fact it can have a really playful and light energy to it. I know we laugh a lot (admittedly sometimes it is just me laughing).</p>
<p>It’s not all about sex either. Grumpiness in the morning is part of a relationship. Sitting down on the couch and watching reruns of MASH is part of a relationship. This is as true for a FLR as it is for any equality based relationship.</p>
<p>OK having said that, the sex is fun. If you’re the kind of woman who enjoys her sex on her own terms, then an FLR can be perfect. After all, if the guy isn’t performing up to the required specifications you can make damn sure he lifts his game. On top of this, for many couples living a FLR it may be a given that the woman has the exclusive authority to find her fun wherever she may. This is how we live it, and I can definitely attest that having options to try someone new from time to time keeps things exciting for both me and him.</p>
<p>Most of all, what I love about a FLR, and what keeps me passionately committed to living this way is that a female led relationship is about NOT being lazy. Let’s face it, men can sometimes get lazy in a relationship. The rules and realities of a FLR throw a challenge down for the male to keep investing himself emotionally and mentally into making the relationship exciting and vibrant. The beauty of our power exchange is that it tends to keep our relationship sharp, passionate and intense.</p>
<p>As I’m winding up this article my hubby is setting the table for dinner. It’s funny to watch him at work. I’m seeing his trademark combination of attentiveness and male denseness. He’s made the effort to choose the wine he knows I like, and he has gone to the rather laborious and unnecessary effort of folding a couple of napkins into paper cranes. Cute. At the same time he has placed a big ol’ bottle of ketchup in the middle of the table and he’s slopped gravy all over the place.</p>
<p>I don’t mind though. A FLR isn’t about expecting perfection or having everything exactly as I envision it. It’s about having a guy who puts in an A grade effort and does his best to please. It’s me expressing my natural dominance and him his natural submissiveness. Most of all, it’s being passionate about one another.</p>
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		<title>Orgasmic Benefits of Male Orgasm Denial</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 01:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aislin Acquati</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you want to be a sex goddess – treated like a queen – wave your magic wand and get what you want? </p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/orgasmic-benefits-of-male-orgasm-denial/">Orgasmic Benefits of Male Orgasm Denial</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-23685" style="margin: 5px;" alt="orgden" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/orgden-268x300.jpg" width="268" height="300" />&#8220;He knows how I like it,&#8221; explains Emily Darnell, a married advertising executive in her late twenties. She&#8217;s glowing as she details the sexual routine she has with her husband. &#8220;First he goes down on me, often for a half hour or so, and then when I&#8217;m right there on the verge of cumming, he enters me and fucks me viciously and I have such an intense orgasm.&#8221;</p>
<p>She stresses those lost two words, eyes wide with excitement. Intense&#8230; orgasm.</p>
<p>&#8220;But not him. He isn&#8217;t allowed. He stops after I cum so we can have cuddle time and I think it&#8217;s so hot feeling his hard cock pressed against my ass, knowing it belongs to me and his pleasure is mine to give or withold. It is quite the power trip!&#8221;</p>
<p>Emily is just one of a growing number of women who practice erotic sexual denial, also known as orgasm denial or orgasm control, a sexual practice in which a man is kept in a heightened state of sexual arousal for an extended length of time without orgasm. The length of time can range from hours and days to weeks and months.</p>
<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s much more attentive to me when he hasn&#8217;t cum for a while, much more willing to please me, to communicate with me.&#8221; says Emily. &#8220;He sees an orgasm as a reward for making me happy and I can extend that for days, even weeks.&#8221;</p>
<p>Do you want to be a sex goddess – treated like a queen – wave your magic wand and get what you want? Of course you do, and you deserve to have it. Oh, the fun doesn&#8217;t stop there – not at all. By practicing male orgasm denial, you will be powerful – pleasured – pampered. Your sex partner will place you on a throne and aim to please you in every way possible.</p>
<p>You see – you decide when your lover gets to cum. The truth is, men need help controlling their cock. Teasing and denying a man is exhilarating for you and sexy to him. Eventually, you allow your lover to have an orgasm as a reward for pleasing you. He actually respects and adores you more when you hold the key to his penis – rather literally or figuratively speaking – as some women do choose to use chastity devices.</p>
<p>When asked how she ensures her man isn’t masturbating, she said, “well – that&#8217;s the trick, he has to give you his word, and you have to let him know how disappointed you&#8217;ll be if he masturbates. Most guys who give control of their orgasm to you will slip. You&#8217;ll soon recognize the signs – he becomes less agreeable, and his sexual response time slows. You&#8217;re able to pick up on subtle clues.”</p>
<p>Kimberly Thomas, a recent college graduate, has a similar approach and says, “A guy&#8217;s whole demeanor changes after sex. After you get to know him, it&#8217;s really easy to tell if he&#8217;s jerked off. If I suspect it, I just extend the time until he can cum again. Sometimes I even withhold MY orgasm from him. He gets really disappointed if I don&#8217;t let him get me off. I just do it to myself while he watches.”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><div class='cow_johnson' style='padding:15px;margin-bottom:15px;float:left;margin-right:15px;width:350px;color:#222222!important;font-family:"Arial";font-size:14px!important;line-height:20px!important;background:#ef89b4;'><strong>Benefits of Male Orgasm Denial<br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> You&#8217;re in charge. He cums when you decide!<br />
<strong>2.</strong> You&#8217;re the focus. Receive sexual and sensual pleasure the way you want and when you want.<br />
<strong>3.</strong> You&#8217;re always desired. He&#8217;ll want you constantly.<br />
<strong>4.</strong> The lines of communication are now open. He&#8217;s now more willing to share his thoughts and feelings with you.</p>
<p></div><div style="clear:none;"></div>There are numerous benefits to women who practice male orgasm denial, and don&#8217;t worry about him (just in case you were, and if you&#8217;ve ever had a man cum before you could climax, you&#8217;re absolutely not), because he will experience pure ecstasy as a result. He will enjoy hours of passionate sex, rather than a short session of fucking for release. And, when you do allow him to cum, it will be a mind-blowing, earth-shattering orgasm that will make him worship you even more. If you smoke, think about how much more you appreciate the puffs of pleasure after waiting longer than normal – or how electrified your entire being feels when you climax after a long sexual plateau. When he earns it, this is the intoxicating experience you give a guy, and it will benefit you in the end – as it should.</p>
<p>Your man will also gain heightened sensual sensitivity. Emily says, “My husband often jokes that he gets a hard on whenever the wind blows. I can just brush my hand across his cock, and it gets hard almost instantly.”</p>
<p>Make no mistake about it – Emily is in control – her lover enjoys the results of being dominated by a woman who has mastered this art.</p>
<p>“My husband has become my willing slave, LOL.”</p>
<p>Male orgasm denial is erotic for both partners, but it offers multiple benefits to women.</p>
<p><strong>Electrifying Authority</strong></p>
<p>Being in charge of a sexually aroused man is electrifying – both mentally and physically. Knowing you have the power to cause and prevent events from happening, as well as create the conditions, is exciting.</p>
<p>Kimberly says, “I feel very empowered. I mean, I control a very key part of his manhood.”</p>
<p><strong>An Obedient Man Whose Goal is to Please</strong></p>
<p>When an orgasm is a man&#8217;s end goal, his desire to please his woman fades away once he cums. On the other hand, when you control his orgasms, his goal is to please you in every way.</p>
<p>Emily says, “My fiance doesn&#8217;t rush through sex, for sure! He showers me with attention, is very agreeable, and does most of the housework. See, with the promise he might get to orgasm, he doesn&#8217;t want to disappoint me.”</p>
<p>“I learned by experience that a horny man is an obedient man,” says Kimberly.</p>
<p><strong>Orgasms – Orgasms – Orgasms</strong></p>
<p>Since you decide when your man will be able to cum as a reward for pleasing you, he will make every effort to give you orgasms – rwith his cock – his tongue – a vibrator – any way you please. Some men can stay hard and please their woman as long as needed once they are used to restraining themselves from cumming. As a result, you can expect to have multiple orgasms.</p>
<p>When asked how she benefited from male orgasm denial, Kimberly said, “More orgasms more often for me. And he treats me like a queen. Do you think he&#8217;s after something? (wink)”</p>
<p><strong>Thrilling Tease and Denial Games</strong></p>
<p>Teasing and denying is fun, and it gives both sex partners a rush. When practicing male orgasm denial, you arouse your lover until he is on the verge of cumming, and then you make him stop – he is not allowed to cum. Tease and denial can take place during sex, but you can also get very creative by using sex toys.</p>
<p>Kimberly says, “Tease and denial is a very important aspect. I&#8217;m really into edging and brewing guys. I also like to use some emotional teasing – like when I&#8217;m cumming, I&#8217;ll say something like, &#8216;Don&#8217;t you wish you could cum? But you&#8217;re just not worthy.&#8217; I&#8217;ve also told him in the past a man&#8217;s orgasm is for making babies, and since we&#8217;re not trying to make a baby, why does he need to cum? I&#8217;ve also reasoned with him that a woman&#8217;s orgasm is purely for pleasure. I guess this some kind of mild brainwashing? LOL.”</p>
<p><strong>A Compliant Cock – Equals – A Blissful Babe</strong></p>
<p>You see, when you tease your man and deny him an orgasm regularly, you are building his frustration tolerance; therefore, he becomes more fun to be with.</p>
<p><strong>Increased Intimacy</strong></p>
<p>When a man is teased and denied, he experiences a mindset change. As a result, he reacts much like a female does after an orgasm. He wants to be intimate and snuggle. This allows for a more like-minded, enjoyable relationship.</p>
<p><strong>An Energetic Lover</strong></p>
<p>When a man cums, his energy level declines. However, a guy who has his orgasms controlled has an increase in vitality due to built up sexual energy. The result is a man full of life who is willing to use his energy – by cleaning house – by taking you out – communicating – however you want.</p>
<p>Emily explains it this way – “In some spiritual beliefs like Taoism, orgasm control is encouraged to preserve a man&#8217;s strength and essence. Ever heard that old adage in sports that athletes should avoid sex while training? You know that brief moment after a guy comes where he gets emotionally distant and physically spent? Taoists call that &#8216;the little death,&#8217;” she said.</p>
<p><strong>Getting Started</strong></p>
<p>“Now, this arrangement isn&#8217;t for everyone. A guy has to really adore you before he&#8217;ll go along with it. Guys react to sex and if you&#8217;re sexual with them, they&#8217;ll become devoted to you.” Emily explained.</p>
<p>Some guys want a female to be in control of them and their orgasms. In fact, this is how Emily became familiar with male orgasm denial. She said, “I had a boyfriend my freshman year in college who was into Femdom. He encouraged me to pursue it, and one of the aspects was orgasm denial. I&#8217;ve since practiced it on other guys I&#8217;ve had relationships with.”</p>
<p>If you are interested in male orgasm denial, start with some fun teasing and denial games, but allow him to cum at the end. This will give your lover a taste of the advantages. In order to receive the benefits, you will have to talk your lover into allowing you to control his ejaculations – trickery won&#8217;t work, but will cause the opposite of what you want.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that you will have to increase the amount of time he goes without an orgasm gradually, but 2 weeks to 1 month is a good time frame. Emily demonstrates beautifully how to control a man&#8217;s ability to cum. When asked how long she typically witholds an orgasm from her fiance, she said, “About every 21 days, and this is after weekly edging and brewing. I&#8217;ve made him go two months on occasion, usually if he&#8217;s crossed me in some way. It&#8217;s funny how we don&#8217;t fight. He just knows if I get mad at him or disappointed in him, he won&#8217;t cum. I do like to change it up, so he doesn&#8217;t know when it&#8217;s coming (pun intended.)”</p>
<p>You are the bewitching beauty – he is the beast. The ability to tame him lies in your hands.</p>
<p>Have you mastered the art of male orgasm denial? If not, are you ready to start?</p>
<div class="red-box"><div class="red-box-content"><strong>Terms to Know</strong></p>
<p><strong>Edging</strong> &#8211; Bringing your men to the edge of orgasm then stopping all stimulation, thereby preventing the climax. This can be done several times during one session of sexual activity or done repeatedly over a period of days or weeks. The goal is to withhold their orgasms for a period of time.</p>
<p><strong>Erotic sexual denial</strong> &#8211; keeping your men in a high state of sexual arousal for an extended length of time without being allowed to orgasm.  Alternatively the phrase is also sometimes used to mean the total denial of genital stimulation.</p>
<p><strong>Extended session</strong> &#8211; When your men are prevented from cumming until you decide to end &#8220;the session.&#8221; A session can be minutes, hours, days or longer.</p>
<p><strong>Orgasm denial</strong> &#8211; see &#8216;erotic sexual denial&#8217; above.</p>
<p><strong>Orgasm control</strong> &#8211; see &#8216;edging&#8217; above.</p>
<p><strong>Total denia</strong>l &#8211; When your men are forbidden from having orgasms. This is also often called chastity, where men have no genital stimulation at all (ever) and their only focus during sex in on your pleasure. </div></div>
<div class="green-box"><div class="green-box-content"> <strong>Male Orgasm Denial&#8217;s Roots in Ancient Philosophy</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-23720" style="margin: 5px;" alt="tao male orgasm denial" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/tao.png" width="150" height="145" />Taoism is a philosophical and religious tradition that emphasizes living in harmony with the Tao. The term Tao means &#8220;way&#8221;, &#8220;path&#8221; or &#8220;principle.&#8221; Taoist sexual practices, literally &#8220;the bedroom arts&#8221;, are the way some Taoists practiced sex. These practices were also known as &#8220;Joining Energy&#8221; or &#8220;The Joining of the Essences&#8221;. Practitioners believed that by performing these sexual arts, one could stay in good health, and attain longevity.</p>
<p>The basis of all Taoist thinking is that qi (lifeforce) is part of everything in existence. Qi is related to another energetic substance contained in the human body known as jing (essense), and once all this has been expended the body dies. Jing can be lost in many ways, but most notably through the loss of body fluids. Taoists may use practices to stimulate/increase and conserve their bodily fluids to great extents. The fluid believed to contain the most Jing is semen. Therefore Taoists believe in decreasing the frequency of, or totally avoiding, male ejaculation in order to conserve life essence.</p>
<p>Many Taoist practitioners link the loss of ejaculatory fluids to the loss of vital life force: where excessive fluid loss results in premature aging, disease, and general fatigue. While some Taoists contend that men should never ejaculate, others provide a specific formula to determine the maximum amount of regular male orgasms. </div></div>
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		<title>Nico &#8211; Your Personal Slave Boy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Apr 2013 13:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>While my boyfriend commutes to work every day, I toil at home. I run my own business from my home office, which is on the second floor of our rented house. My office window happens to overlook our neighbor’s patio. I usually hear nothing from next door during the day. However, several weeks ago I [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/my-neighbor-my-slave/">My neighbor, my slave</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-23757" style="margin: 5px;" alt="neighbor" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/neighbor-268x300.jpg" width="268" height="300" />While my boyfriend commutes to work every day, I toil at home. I run my own business from my home office, which is on the second floor of our rented house. My office window happens to overlook our neighbor’s patio. I usually hear nothing from next door during the day. However, several weeks ago I heard the clicking of high heels on the concrete driveway. My first thought was that my neighbor, Todd, had a female friend over at his house, and being a little nosy, I thought I’d take a peek.</p>
<p>I went over to the window and looked outside. I saw a cute blonde dressed in an adorable French maid outfit. I was careful to keep my presence a secret because I didn’t want to interrupt the romantic play that I figured Todd and this woman were having. But then something happened that threw me for a loop: The woman’s cell phone rang, but when she answered the call, I heard Todd’s voice! My God, I thought, Todd is a cross dresser!</p>
<p>I stood by the window, listening and watching, and I finally went downstairs and opened the sliding door, which led out to the backyard. I quietly kicked off my shoes and snuck closer to the fence. I peered through, and, yep, there was Todd in full makeup, a blonde wig, and that sweet French maid uniform. I climbed up onto a lounge chair near the fence, looked over and startled the hell out of him. He realized right away that I’d discovered his secret, so he didn’t run. He knew it was too late for that. He stuttered and stammered, telling me that he liked to dress up while he cleaned his house, adding that he thought I’d gone for the day because he saw my car pull out of the driveway that morning. What he didn’t realize is that my boyfriend’s car was in the shop, so he’d borrowed mine.</p>
<p>Todd stood there staring at me, his beautiful face blushing. I took it upon myself to make the next move, and came around the fence to pay him a more personal visit. Once I was there, I made him strut around the yard. Those four inch heels made a sexy click clacking sound, and when he twirled, his white petticoats flared out. I loved the way he looked. To be honest, it kind of turned me on.</p>
<p>Todd looked worried and begged me not to tell a soul. With a twinkle in my eye, I told him I wouldn’t but that it would cost him.</p>
<p>Since Todd worked the twilight shift, from four o’clock to midnight, I knew he had the daytime free. I suggested that he could be my maid, because I hated keeping house while trying to operate my business. That suggestion must have hit a submissive nerve in him because he jumped at the chance. I took him by the hand and pulled him over to my house. I instructed him to get busy washing the dishes. Since it was Friday, I told him I would make up a list of his weekly chores, and that on Monday I expected my maid to appear promptly at nine in the morning.</p>
<p>On Monday morning, Todd was on my doorstep in his freshly laundered and ironed French maid uniform, including stiff, white petticoats and a white lace cap perched atop his blonde wig. I showed Todd his work schedule. Every morning, he was to wash the dishes from the night before, wash the breakfast dishes, prepare my lunch, and clean up afterward. On Monday, he had to change the linens on the bed. Tuesday he had to do the laundry and ironing, as well as vacuum. Wednesday and Thursday were for odd jobs, like dusting and cleaning out the refrigerator. Each afternoon before my boyfriend came home, Todd had to water the plants in the garden. If there were no other chores to do, I’d put him to work performing secretarial duties in my office.</p>
<p>I soon found that with Todd’s help, I was able to generate more revenue. I decided to reward Todd with gifts of new dresses smart looking professional outfits that added to the atmosphere of a real office. After doing his housework in the morning, Todd would change from his uniform and become my pretty secretary. He looks beautiful in a dress, hosiery and heels. We started taking breaks away from the house, having lunch at local restaurants and shopping together at the mall. Todd and I became close friends.</p>
<p>Usually by nine o’clock I am dressed and waiting for Todd’s knock on the door. One recent Monday, my boyfriend and I were running late, so I hadn’t had time to change out of my negligee by the time Todd arrived. I let him in, apologizing for not being dressed properly and said that I hoped he wasn’t embarrassed to see me wearing my tiny baby doll. I could tell from the lustful look in his eyes, however, that he didn’t mind at all. I don’t know why, but at that moment I blurted out that my boyfriend always fucks me before he leaves for work in the morning and leaves my pussy oozing come. I told him I usually take a shower before his arrival, but I hadn’t yet had the chance.</p>
<p>I started to leave the room, but impulsively I turned back toward him. I suggested that maybe his first chore of the morning should be to clean out my pussy with his tongue. I grabbed him by his choker, led him to an armchair, pushed him down to his knees, and sat myself in front of him. I draped my legs over the arms of the chair and told him to get going. He immediately slurped up the come that had dribbled down my thigh and then got to work cleaning my pussy.</p>
<p>Todd’s tongue was a gift. My boyfriend would never go down on me after sex, but my little maid ate my creamy pussy without hesitation. Whenever he stopped to take a breath, I nudged his head back down and told him I would tell him when I was satisfied. He continued lapping at my cunt for more than forty five minutes, which made me wetter and wetter. After I had multiple orgasms and was sated, I pushed him away and told him to prepare my breakfast while I showered and dressed.</p>
<p>Cleaning my pussy has become Todd’s first chore of the morning. Within seconds of his arrival, he heads straight for the chair and kneels before it, waiting for me to sit down. On one of those occasions just last week, I looked at him with a smirk on my face and told him I had a surprise. That morning my boyfriend had loaded up my ass with come, so I knelt on the chair and presented my dripping hole to Todd. I enjoyed having his tongue licking me back there, and I rubbed my clit until I came while his tongue probed my backdoor. Having Todd clean my ass made him truly submissive to me. I adore him, and he will always be my special maid.</p>
<p>Ms. Isabella K., Trenton, New Jersey</p>
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		<title>The Scandalous Guide to Female Dominance</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>If thought of leather and sexually controlling your man turns you on, you are not alone. Yes, sexy Madame, you are one of the millions of women who are in touch with their sexual dominatrix.</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/the-scandalous-guide-to-female-dominance/">The Scandalous Guide to Female Dominance</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>“Man is the one who desires, woman the one who is desired. This is woman&#8217;s entire but decisive advantage. Through man&#8217;s passions, nature has given man into woman&#8217;s hands, and the woman who does not know how to make him her subject, her slave, her toy, and how to betray him with a smile in the end is not wise.”</em><br />
<strong>― Leopold von Sacher-Masoch</strong></p>
<p>Leather. Ah the feel of it. There&#8217;s something about leather on the skin that makes one feel powerful, devilish, and ready for something sexy, something steamy, and perhaps something a tad subversive. If your fancy is being titillated by the thought of leather, you are not alone. Yes, sexy Madame, you are one of the millions of women who are in touch with their sexual dominatrix.</p>
<p>Of course, it is obvious that in the world we live in, it is impossible not to partake in the hierarchy known as dominant and submissive. With co-workers, family, friends, and lovers, there is always one person bent over and taking it up the ass in one way or another, so why hide it in the boudoir? Sadomasochism is the way of the world, and is most likely, in one form or another, already in everyone&#8217;s bedroom as well. But why dip those toes in, when full submergence can bring about a new sexual dimension that burns with intensity, drama, mystery, and primal desire? Who knows what may emerge about oneself, one&#8217;s lover or one&#8217;s relationship? One never knows, until one tries. So, find out for yourself by entering SCANDALOUS&#8217; Dungeon to learn the secret of dominatrixes and how to make your love life hurt so good!</p>
<h4><strong>The History of S&amp;M</strong></h4>
<p>S&amp;M&#8217;s formal written history started in the late 1700&#8242;s with the Marquis de Sade, an infamous French aristocrat that spent most of his life in prison for his cruel acts and excess in brothels. While imprisoned for 30 years, he wrote about his fantasies of domination, assault, and degradation of the body. He felt the world had one power structure: dominant and submissive. This opinion labeled him as a criminal and sexual deviant, and eventually caused him to spend his last nine years confined to an insane asylum. His tales of aggression are now his legacy.</p>
<p>The &#8220;bottom&#8221; story is first claimed by Austrian born Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (1836-1895). Having penned over 90 titles, von Sacher-Masoch had one book reach acclaim &#8211; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_in_Furs" target="_blank"><em>Venus In Furs</em></a>. In the book, he vicariously carries out his fantasy through words: submitting to his ideal woman created of skin and fur. The crueler she was to him, the more he longed for her. Through his pain and humiliation, he derived his pleasure. Historians say his wife was the muse for Venus, although she never acquiesced to his degradation desires. In the end, his wife gave in, sent him to an asylum, and declared him dead, thus granting him the ultimate humiliation.</p>
<p>Bringing the two sides together to form one cohesive sexual union of complimenting passions was German physician and neurologist, Richard von Krafft-Ebing. Considered an authority on sexual deviance, he did vast research into sexual psychopathology and saw the obvious pairing. Hence, sadomasochism was recognized.</p>
<h4><strong>S&amp;M 101</strong></h4>
<p>Just like any form of sexual pleasure, there are different strokes for different folks, and like penises, S&amp;M comes in many shapes and sizes. The three most popular forms are: sadomasochism, dominance and submission, and bondage and discipline. Although each can by practiced independently, they usually work as a progression to enhance one another.</p>
<p>Tying it together to create a &#8220;scene&#8221; are the fetishes, which are the pleasurable details involving the eroticism of a typically non-sexual object. Of course, we all have heard about the foot fetish, but it can range from anything from calculators to alligators. S&amp;M is about unleashing the imagination, and anything that makes the experience hotter and more sumptuous goes. It is about role-play and complete submission to the experience, and to one&#8217;s partner. When a couple forms this nonjudgmental forum to express and create their fantasies, they grow a bond that most do not usually touch upon. As many couples who practice S&amp;M believe, it brings them closer.</p>
<p>Mixed into the sharing of fantasies is also discovering each other&#8217;s limits. The foundation of any S&amp;M relationship is, &#8220;safe, sane, and consensual.&#8221; It is necessary to always make an agreement of what activities can and can&#8217;t happen. Also, a &#8220;safe word&#8221; is agreed upon; some word or signal that acts like a red alert button to end or slow down the scene. After the agreements, action begins!</p>
<h4><strong>Setting the Stage</strong></h4>
<p>According to Mistress Raven, creating a scene is just like putting on any dramatic production: &#8220;You need to bring in all the elements to get you in the mindset—the right costumes are a must. Leather, rubber, vinyl, or PVC is preferable and high heels or high boots are crucial. For the slave, a collar is needed and perhaps a leash. It is about the sensual role-play, having the music, setting, and costumes, and using your mind. The only limit is your imagination.&#8221;</p>
<p><div class="grey-box"><div class="grey-box-content"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">6 HOT Dominatrix Sex Tips that will leave him begging for more!</span></strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft" style="margin: 0px 5px; border: 1px solid black;" alt="" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/med0061547336.jpg" width="106" height="160" align="left" /><strong>1.</strong> Eroticize a part of your body; let him stare at that one favorite part of you while he is jerking off until he ejaculates.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> A fabulous finale for him: while he is blindfolded, crack an egg over his cock and balls and give him a hand job. &#8220;They don&#8217;t know what the hell it is, and it feels great.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong> Put a little toothpaste in your pussy right before sex. During sex, it will foam up, make the skin cool and tingly, and then hot. Be sure this is towards the end, or during a quickie, because the sensation will burn after five minutes.</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong> Go to a pharmacy, get some ALUM and douche with it. It will tighten your pussy and make you feel like a virgin all over again.</p>
<p><strong>5.</strong> Eating cinnamon makes semen tastier. Pineapple juice makes your pussy sweeter.</p>
<p><strong>6.</strong> Leaving marks is a no-no for many. Whip without residual visuals by using a nylon cord soaked overnight in grape fruit or lemon juice. During the session, use fine sandpaper to buff whatever is going to be whipped and then flog away! It&#8217;s amazing how it will leave no marks, and it will hurt like a motherfucker for a few days. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061547336?tag=scandalous-20&amp;camp=0&amp;creative=0&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0061547336&amp;adid=18QE23A2S2GN0EJR48N3&amp;" target="_blank">Read More</a></div></div><br />
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<strong>Top 6 Role Playing Scenarios</strong></p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> Amazon goddess and slave</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> Teacher and naughty student</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong>Next door neighbor and the peeping Tom</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong>Boss and secretary</p>
<p><strong>5.</strong>Doctor and patient</p>
<p><strong>6.</strong> Interrogator and prisoner</div></div></p>
<div class="grey-box"><div class="grey-box-content">For decades the vampish and powerful Hollywood actress has been, for better or worse, a role model for women world-wide. <strong>CelebrityDominatrix.com</strong> celebrates the emergence of women, and especially dominant women, into increasingly explicit positions of superiority over males in the cinema, literature, and the rest of popular culture. Here&#8217;s a sample of Dominant Celebrities.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eva.jpg"><img class="alignleft" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="eva" alt="" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eva.jpg" width="140" height="140" /></a><strong>Eva Longoria</strong></p>
<p>Eva Longoria is a Dominatrix? You might consider her realistic portrayal of kinky cuckolding Gabrielle Solis in Desperate Housewives as &#8220;getting into character,&#8221; but her role might be mirroring real life. In recent months Ms. Longoria has reportedly cracked the verbal and conjugal whip repeatedly on her submissive husband, basketball star Tony Parker, whom Longoria treats in the bedroom as an eager but &#8220;fumbling schoolboy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m the teacher,&#8221; she told the press at one point during their courtship. Speaking to friends more recently, she added, &#8220;Tony&#8217;s learning &#8212; but he knows who&#8217;s in charge.&#8221; Friends of Eva Longoria say she is definitely the more dominant person in her relationship. A source adds: &#8220;Eva wears the trousers in the relationship.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/megan.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-18509" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="megan" alt="" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/megan.jpg" width="140" height="140" /></a><strong>Megan Fox</strong></p>
<p>Megan Fox needs no introduction as an actress, nor, recently, as the world’s leading spokesinatrix for female dominance. Her “vagina power” interview says it all.</p>
<p>“Women hold the power,” she tells Cosmo, “because we have the vaginas. If you’re in a heterosexual relationship and you’re a female, you win.”</p>
<p>“I collect attractive boys… I never call them guys. I always called them boys. Maybe it’s a superiority complex — my needing to keep them down.”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/angelina.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-18524" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="angelina" alt="" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/angelina.jpg" width="140" height="140" /></a><strong>Angelina Jolie</strong></p>
<p>Repeated femdom roles, and a frequenter domination clubs in real life. Says gal pal Jenny Shimizu, “I took her to dominatrix joints and she loved them all. The darker the better&#8230; she&#8217;s not going to be a housewife. You can&#8217;t control Angelina.&#8221;</p>
<p>Jolie admits to pushing the boundaries with her lovers, “both emotional and sexual. That’s when I’ve felt the sexiest. I’ve been in dominant roles because I want more.” </div></div>
<div class="red-box"><div class="red-box-content"> <img style="margin: 3px 5px;" alt="" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/powershop.jpg" align="left" />So you want to be treated like the Princess that you are? Curious about kink but embarassed to go shopping for toys? BDSM is a wonderful way to explore your erotic boundaries but getting the necessary tools discreetly is often challenging. Read this Scandalous guide to Erotic Power Shopping for tips and tricks on turning your bedroom into a dungeon for your  men without your nosy neighbors finding out!</p>
<p><strong>Real World Shopping</strong></p>
<p>Stores that sell BDSM toys aren&#8217;t just in the seedy sides of big cities anymore! They&#8217;ve popped up in small towns and affluent suburbs all over the country! That&#8217;s good because toys are easier than ever to purchase. It&#8217;s bad, though, because it&#8217;s now much easier to be spotted by someone you know coming and going. The question then is do you want to go to the sex shop next to your hair salon or grocery store where people you know will see you? Probably not! So drive to the other side of your city of the next town over to purchase your kinky stuff.</p>
<p>Not ready to peruse the sex toy shops yet? Believe it or, you can find toys almost anywhere. Pet stores are great for collars and leashes to lead your guys around your bedroom with. Hardware and home improvement stores carry a variety items, including soft nylon ropes for restraining your slaves while you punish them or pleasure yourself with them. Ping Pong paddles are excellent tools for spanking and are always available at department stores and sporting goods stores. For more heavy duty flogging, any belt you have will do the trick as well as the riding crop you can purchase an an equestrian store.</p>
<p><strong>Online Shopping</strong></p>
<p>Do you want you toys shipped to you quickly and disreetly? Scandalous! recommends the following:</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Babeland:</span> If you happen to live in Seattle or Brooklyn you can visit the four <a href="http://www.babeland.com/?kbid=1673">Babeland</a> locations. For the rest of us, this female-friendly store (owned by Claire Cavanah and Rachel Venning ) offers top quality products along with information and encouragement to women who wanted to explore their sexuality.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Stockroom:</span> <a href="http://www.stockroom.com/?ref=4374994">JT&#8217;s Stockroom</a> is the original internet source for quality sex toys. The company was founded in 1988, and the internet has been their primary market since 1990. They are now in their 20th year selling sex toys, bondage gear and restraints online, catering to both the kink curious novice to the extreme bdsm player.</p>
<p><strong>An important THIRD option!</strong></p>
<p>If you or one or you men is handy with tools, here is an awesome book on making your own kinky toys! <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0963976370?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=scandalous-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789">Kinkycrafts</a> contains 99 &#8220;Do it Yourself&#8221; S&amp;M projects organized into six major catagories: bondage furniture, pain toys, flagellation toys, restraints, sexual toys and unclassifiable (items like tongue condoms and tool racks). Each project has instructions, a materials list, cost and time estimates and a picture. </div></div>
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		<title>Rayna Zemel and Acafool Tag Team on Hip Hop Track</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Apr 2013 01:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren Michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Both artist and producer know their audience and what they deliver is the perfect Spring and Summertime jam</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/rayna-zemel-and-acafool-tag-team-on-hip-hop-track/">Rayna Zemel and Acafool Tag Team on Hip Hop Track</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-23588" style="margin: 5px;" alt="raynacafool" src="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-content/uploads/raynacafool-268x300.jpg" width="268" height="300" />Role reversal is a term you often hear during discreet discussions on bedroom politics. Who&#8217;s on top is now a matter of choice, not tradition. In music, though, tradition is a stubborn thing. A female performer usually has a male mastermind in the studio producing and arranging her sound. Seldom is the reverse true. Meet an exception, <strong>Rayna Zemel</strong>, a Philly born producer/engineer who has worked with Grammy winning artists, music heavy weights and up and coming new artists. Her latest project is Rap artist <strong>Acafool</strong> and his track <em>You Deserve a Medal</em>, a fun little slice of Hip Hop goodness with Zemel’s signature “big pop hook” sound.</p>
<p>Acafool wrote the song for &#8220;all the ladies that are and will teach their daugters how to be ladies.&#8221; It&#8217;s actually one of the better new hip hop songs I&#8217;ve heard lately because it doesn&#8217;t pretend to be something it isn&#8217;t. Both artist and producer know their audience and what they deliver is the perfect Spring and Summertime jam and instand dancefloor favorite.</p>
<p>Download the track free below and follow both <a href="https://twitter.com/Acafool" target="_blank">Acafool</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/rayzemi" target="_blank">Rayna Zemel</a> on Twitter.</p>
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		<title>Marcus Norris Wants His Music To Endure</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2013 18:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren Michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>succulent bump and grind slow jams and quiet storm tracks ideal for lovers and lusters everywhere</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/marcus-norris-wants-his-music-to-endure/">Marcus Norris Wants His Music To Endure</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was in high school I used to judge music by one criteria and one criteria only: In the coming decades would a particular song be remembered. Imagine my surprise when I learned that smooth R&amp;B singer Marcus Norris shares the same sentiment. His long term goal is to be mentioned when future music writers revisit 21st Century African American Composers. A lofty goal, to be sure, but still a smart one. While most of his contemporaries strive for success here and now, Norris sees the importance of making music with lasting appeal.</p>
<p>His Hip Hop/R&amp;B album Sunrise was released on February 14, 2013 and quickly reached the #1 position on Bandcamp&#8217;s Hip Hop and Rap CDs chart. There&#8217;s no irony the collection bowed on Valentine&#8217;s day because it contains some pretty succulent bump and grind slow jams and quiet storm tracks ideal for lovers and lusters everywhere.</p>
<p>Stand out track Slow Dancing (featuring Ashley Mondale) has a &#8216;blue lights in the basement&#8217; Keith Sweat appeal to it. The song is accentuated by a lead quitar-driven breakdown, an element uncommon in a most music of this genre. Pure foreplay, this sexy track will lead you exactly where you think it will. Just go shopping for some new lingerie first. <img src='http://www.scandalouswomen.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Heart Go Down is a mid-tempo Hip Hop jam featuring all the male bravado we&#8217;ve come to expect from rap artists. The song is a dedication of sorts to an ex-girlfriend who perhaps bailed on the relationship before the artist hit the big time. In it, Norris wonders if &#8216;her heart goes down&#8217; whenever she hears his name. Though the track&#8217;s message to this wayward former lover is &#8216;you had your chance with me,&#8221; it has a delicious cuckolding undertone: &#8216;first verse goes to a certain one especially, honestly I thought when I made it you&#8217;d be here next to me, instead you sneakin&#8217; past your man and sendin&#8217; late night texts to me&#8230; you was at the fair holding hands with your man, next night touchin&#8217; me&#8230;&#8217;</p>
<p>Check Marcus out <a href="http://www.marcusnorris.com/" target="_blank">online</a> where can download his entire album free. And, as alway, scandalouswomen is hooking you up with a free track below.</p>
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		<title>Curse and Kisses is &#8216;Orgasmic&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2013 01:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lauren Michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>"rock music that gives you extreme pleasure"</p><p>The post <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com/curse-and-kisses-is-orgasmic/">Curse and Kisses is &#8216;Orgasmic&#8217;</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.scandalouswomen.com">Scandalouswomen</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When asked to describe his music, Curse &amp; Kisses front man Rudy says, &#8220;“Orgasmic Rock – rock music that gives you extreme pleasure.” Now THAT is some tunage I can get behind (or it can get ME from behind!) A musical toybox of hard rock styles and lyrical grandiouse, Curse and Kisses have put their own unique stamp on a myriad of influences to produce some amazing sounds. Whether your thing is playing air guitar or deciphering the meaning of songs, this four song self-title EP has something for the rock fan.</p>
<p>Drawing from the darker hair metal of the 80s with a splattering of funk and soul, you&#8217;ll immediately groove to the track &#8216;Stone Cold Freak,&#8217; an homage to some of the girls in my office, no doubt! On the more serious side, Zombie explores the topic of substance abuse and addition, comparing it to being dead while alive.</p>
<p>There is something both familiar and refreshing about Curse and Kisses. Listen for yourself below and check them out on line here.</p>
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